In Her Own Words
About Her
Why Get to Know Me?
Because there’s more to me than meets the eye. I’m warm, loyal, curious, and I appreciate the little things that make life beautiful. I love good conversation, genuine laughter, music, movies, and creating special moments.
I’m independent and strong, but I still believe in romance, kindness, and having someone beside you who genuinely wants to be there. I’m not looking for perfection—I’m looking for real connection, chemistry, honesty, and someone who makes life even better. ❤️
About Her Ideal Match
My Ideal Match
Someone confident but not arrogant, strong but gentle, and emotionally mature enough to communicate honestly. A man who knows what he wants, keeps his word, and treats a woman with genuine respect.
I’m attracted to intelligence, humour, ambition and a good heart. Someone who can make me laugh, challenge me, spoil me a little, and still enjoy the simple things together.
Most importantly, I want a genuine partner—not a perfect person. Someone who wants to build something meaningful, has chemistry with me, and chooses each other even when life isn't perfect. ❤️
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Randburg (Roodepoort), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
42 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Grey | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
42 - 56 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") - 190cm (6' 2.8") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Black; Greying; None (Bald); Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English; Greek; Italian; Russian | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Occasional; Regular | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short; Straight; Wild; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Outgoing; Realistic; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Other |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Jazz; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Fiction; Romance |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Cartoons; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Computer programming; Cooking; Gambling; Making Music; Reading; Shopping; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Boxing; Bungee jumping; Dancesport; Extreme sports; Gymnastics; Ice Skating; Inline / Roller skating; Martial arts; Motorsport; Rugby; Shooting; Skateboarding; Snooker |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; German; Greek; Italian; Pub Grub; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I don't work |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Closeness: |
My friends are my main family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm seeing someone, but not exclusively |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |