In Her Own Words
About Her
I'm independent, confident and comfortable in my own skin, but I still believe in the magic of having someone special to share life with. I have a good sense of humor, a caring heart and a slightly cheeky side that comes out when I’m comfortable. I'm looking for someone who can make me laugh, stimulate my mind and enjoy the little things with me. Life is too short for boring conversations and lukewarm chemistry.
About Her Ideal Match
I'm looking for a man who is confident without being arrogant, affectionate without being clingy, and strong enough to appreciate a woman who knows her own mind.
Someone who can make me laugh, communicate openly, keep his word and isn't afraid of genuine affection. I value loyalty, honesty, emotional maturity and a good sense of humour.
My ideal man is someone who enjoys both adventure and quiet moments—whether it's going somewhere special, sharing a good meal, having a few drinks and laughing for hours, or simply enjoying each other's company at home.
Chemistry matters. So does that feeling of being able to talk for hours and still want to be around each other.
I'm not looking for perfection. I'm looking for a man who knows what he wants, treats his woman well, has a good heart and is ready for something real.
And if he has a cheeky sense of humor and can keep up with me… well, that's definitely a bonus.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
41 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
155cm (5' 1.0") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
Dutch; English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Teacher / Professor | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
42 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
158cm (5' 2.2") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Other | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Occasional; Regular; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outspoken; Sarcastic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Other |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Crime; Horror; Non-fiction |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Horror; Mystery |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Knitting; Reading; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; German; Italian; Seafood; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Lactose-free |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Watching TV or a movie |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |






