In Her Own Words
About Her
Still curious. Still passionate. Still becoming.
Art, music, nature, deep conversation and a good laugh keep me alive. I’m drawn to authenticity, kindness, intelligence and men who have the courage to be genuinely themselves.
There’s more to me than meets the eye. I’m an artist, a dreamer, a deep thinker and, despite everything life has thrown at me, I’ve held on to my curiosity and my sense of wonder.
I love beautiful things, wild places, music that moves the soul, laughter that makes your stomach hurt, and conversations that wander far beyond small talk.
I’m affectionate, independent, unconventional and endlessly curious about people. I don’t need someone to complete me—I’d simply love someone with whom I can share the extraordinary little things that make life worth living.
If you’re kind, emotionally intelligent, curious about the world and still capable of being surprised by it, we might have something to discover together.
About Her Ideal Match
I’m not looking for a knight in shining armour. I’m looking for the man who makes me forget I ever needed one.
He’s confident, but never arrogant. Intelligent, but never condescending. He knows who he is—and doesn’t feel threatened by a woman who knows who she is too.
There should be chemistry. The kind you feel across a room before either of you has said a word. A wicked sense of humour helps. So does a warm embrace, an interesting mind and the ability to look at a woman as though he’s genuinely curious about what makes her tick.
I want laughter, long conversations, spontaneous adventures, lingering looks and that delicious feeling of *“What on earth have we stumbled into?”*
He’s lived enough to have depth, healed enough to have tenderness, and still has a little mischief left in him.
I’m not interested in perfection.
I’m interested in the man who can still surprise me. He has to intrigue me. I'm not interested in having a checklist of clichés.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
66 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
152cm (4' 11.8") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English; German | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Pretoria (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
63 - 70 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
173cm (5' 8.1") - 192cm (6' 3.6") | ||
Body Type: |
Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | ||
Other Languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Straight; Curly; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Quiet; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Latin; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Motoring; Nature / Wildlife; News; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; War |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Card games; Gardening; Healthy living; Making Music; Painting; Photography; Reading; Singing; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Athletics; Birdwatching; Camping; Cycling; Extreme sports; Fishing; Inline / Roller skating; Motorsport; Snorkeling; Swimming; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Indian; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Embarrassed |
Honesty: |
Extremely |