In His Own Words
About Him
Young, ambitious, in my 20s, I seek meaningful connection. I’m looking to meet a confident, mature woman who knows herself, enjoys great conversation, and embraces laughter, flirtation, and life’s adventures.
About His Ideal Match
a woman who wears confidence effortlessly and has a warmth that instantly puts people at ease. She is emotionally mature, independent, and knows exactly what she wants from life without feeling the need to prove anything to anyone.
She’s intelligent and enjoys conversations that can be playful one moment and deeply meaningful the next. Her smile is genuine, her laughter is contagious, and she carries herself with grace, elegance, and quiet strength.
She values honesty, mutual respect, and affection. She appreciates romance—a lingering glance, thoughtful gestures, spontaneous adventures, and the excitement of discovering a real connection. She’s open-minded, emotionally available, and believes that attraction is built on chemistry, trust, and shared experiences rather than age alone.
Most of all, she’s someone who inspires me to be my best self while embracing me for who I am. Together, we’d create a relationship filled with passion, laughter, support, and unforgettable moments, proving that genuine love and connection know no boundaries.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Bloemfontein (Kroonstad), Free State, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
23 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Tswana | |
Other Languages: |
English; Sepedi; Xhosa | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Married | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Free State, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Married; Separated; Divorced; Partnered | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
None |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Caustic |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Quiet |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Devotion; Honesty; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Pink |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Electronic Dance Music; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Fiction; History; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Motoring; Reality shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Horror; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Investing |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Archery; Extreme sports; Motorsport; Shooting |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Doing household chores |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in a monogamous relationship |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Nervous |
Honesty: |
Extremely |



