In His Own Words
About Him
Dating apps try to compress human complexity into a few photos, interests and carefully chosen words. But real connection rarely happens in a profile.
It happens in the unscripted parts:
the way someone laughs,
how they treat people,
their humour,
their honesty,
their consistency,
their energy,
the small details nobody thought to advertise.
I think the best connections happen naturally — when conversation feels easy, silence feels comfortable, and two people can stop performing and just be real.
More interested in authenticity than perfection.
Good conversation over endless small talk.
Peace over drama.
Humour, depth and emotional intelligence over polished lines 😊
About His Ideal Match
Looking for someone kind, emotionally mature, playful and genuinely comfortable being herself!!
Not too interested in perfectly curated profiles or people trying to “sell” a version of themselves. Real connection usually happens in the unscripted parts — humour, energy, honesty, consistency, kindness and the little things nobody thinks to advertise.
I’m drawn to women who enjoy meaningful conversation, sarcasm, good music, coffee runs, ocean air, road trips and random debates like whether a baboon or warthog would win a cage fight 😂
The best connections should feel natural:
easy conversation, mutual effort, emotional peace, attraction, friendship and being able to laugh together without constantly overthinking everything.
Green flags:
kindness, humour, emotional intelligence, communication, authenticity and consistency 😊
Red flags:
dishonesty, emotional games, constant negativity, attention-seeking behaviour and people who make relationships feel exhausting instead of peaceful 😄
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
52 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
42 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
155cm (5' 1.0") - 175cm (5' 8.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Coloured; Indian; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
The party-pooper |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Funny; Mild; Pessimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; New Age; Pop / Top 40; Reggae; Rock; World |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Motoring; Nature / Wildlife; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Making Music; Photography; Pottery; Sculpting; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Cricket; Hiking; Motorsport; Pool; Rock climbing; Rugby; Walking; Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
I don't speak to my family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Honesty: |
Extremely |