In Her Own Words
About Her
I am a loving mom with a heart that doesn’t quit, even when life gets hard. I'm the kind of person who turns pain into purpose — and telling my three children how grateful I are for them, their spouses, and my grandchildren. Family is everything to me. I'm thoughtful, brave, and I care deeply about leaving love behind in words. I've got warmth, resilience, and a bit of playfulness too — like when I chose a cool username. I don’t give up on the people I love, and I believe love should be said out loud, written down, and remembered.
Im and extrovert, love the bush as I love the sea. I enjoy entertaining and love to have people around.
About Her Ideal Match
A perfect match for me is someone who values family the way I do.
He understands that love isn’t just a feeling — it’s showing up, writing things down, praying, remembering birthdays, and choosing people every day. I would love him to respect how deeply I love my children, my grandchildren and my family.,
He must be steady and kind.
Life has asked a lot of me already. I don’t need drama. I need a man with a calm heart, who listens more than he talks, who’s proud of my strengths, but also gives me a place to rest. Someone who thinks writing letters and keeping memories is beautiful, not “too much.”
He’ must be loyal and have integrity.
Trust matters to me. My match is a man who communicates clearly, who doesn’t play games, and who protects my heart and my peace.
He has warmth and a little playfulness.
Someone who will laugh with me, who thinks my stories are worth hearing, who will help me write that diary entry when I'm stuck, and who will also send you a silly username idea at 11pm. Someone who believes in love, faith, and legacy.
Most of all: he sees me
Not just as “a mom” or “a grandma,” but as me. The woman who loves fiercely, who creates safe spaces with words, who is building something beautiful even in hard seasons.
Someone who says: “I’m not here to replace anyone. I’m here to stand beside you.”
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Brits (Hartebeespoort), North-West, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
71 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
160cm (5' 3.0") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
58 - 75 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Other |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40 |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Soap operas; Sport; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Photography; Shopping |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Athletics; Birdwatching; Cricket; Dancesport; Fishing; Gymnastics; Rugby; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I don't work |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |