In His Own Words
About Him
Easy-going, active, and always up for an adventure. I'm an IT professional. I love surfing, hiking, pickleball, camping, and spending time outdoors. I have two independent adult children who mean the world to me. Kind, respectful, and old-school at heart, I'm looking for a genuine long-term relationship built on honesty, trust, laughter, and shared experiences. No hook-ups—real connection matters most.
About His Ideal Match
I'm drawn to someone who is kind, grounded, and enjoys an active life. A great sense of humour, emotional maturity, and a love for the outdoors are all big pluses. Ultimately, I'm looking for a genuine connection with someone who values honesty, laughter, and building something meaningful together.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Southern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
48 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
176cm (5' 9.3") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 185cm (6' 0.8") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Other | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Wild |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Silly; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Motoring; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Sport; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Reading; Singing |
Sport Involvement: |
A regular competitor |
Sports: |
Athletics; Backgammon; Boxing; Bungee jumping; Hiking; Horse Riding; Martial arts; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Pool; Rugby; Running; Snorkeling; Soccer; Squash; Surfing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking; Weight training; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |