In Her Own Words
About Her
I'm someone who values depth, honesty and meaningful conversation. Surface level interactions have never really interested me. I enjoy learning, teaching and helping people grow, whether that's through my creative projects or my involvement in the BDSM community as an educator.
If you've found me because of the lifestyle, you'll quickly discover that I believe BDSM is built on trust, communication, consent and continuous learning, not on labels or fantasy. I appreciate people who are willing to ask questions, challenge their own assumptions and develop as individuals.
Outside of that, I'm passionate about music, psychology, horror cinema, true crime, animals and creativity. I enjoy creating things that make people think rather than simply entertain them.
Loyalty, emotional maturity, kindness and a good sense of humour mean far more to me than appearances. I'm not interested in games, dishonesty or people pretending to be someone they're aren't.
If we connect, I'd rather spend hours talking about ideas, ambitions, life experiences and what genuinely makes us who we are than exchange endless small talk. Real connections are built over time and that's what I'm interested in.
About Her Ideal Match
My ideal match is someone who is emotionally mature, honest, loyal and genuinely wants to build something meaningful. Communication is incredibly important to me, so I'd much rather be with someone who is open, self aware and willing to have difficult conversations than someone who avoids them.
I admire curiosity and a willingness to learn. Whether you're already experienced or just beginning your journey, what matters most is authenticity and the desire to grow as a person.
Shared interests are a bonus but shared values matter far more. Compassion, respect, integrity and kindness are qualities that never go unnoticed. I'd love to meet someone who enjoys deep conversations, has a good sense of humour and isn't afraid to be themselves.
If you're interested in a D/s dynamic, I value someone who understands that trust, communication, mutual respect and consent form the foundation of any healthy power exchange. Titles and labels mean very little without the character to support them.
Ultimately, I'm looking for a genuine connection with someone who wants to build a relationship based on trust, support, personal growth and shared experiences. Life is far more rewarding when you have someone beside you who encourages you to become the best version of yourself and who wants the same in return.
What Her Friends Say
Stephen said...
I know this kadt forvsome time she is a very bubbly out going lafy but with a very level head aboyt her.
Her personality is something what make you smile to the point you just cant get enough.
I know her to be a very amazing lady and Domme who has amazing caring nature and so patient with everyone she mets .
I am pleased and Honored to call her a very good friend.
About Her
Country of Origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Newcastle upon Tyne [NE29], Tyne & Wear, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
37 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer | |
Income: |
Wealthy |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
19 - 39 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; More piercings; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Intelligent; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
A leather biker's jacket |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Business; Crime; History; Horror; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
My TV is never off |
TV Shows: |
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Educational; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Adult; Black & White / Silent; Cult Classics; Documentary; Horror; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Healthy living; Making Music; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Singing; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Basketball; Fencing; Horse Riding |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; Italian; Japanese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
Fire the boss |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |