In His Own Words
About Him
Confident, quirky, ambitious, intellectual, nerdy, known to lie 2/5 times. Ekselent speler.
Slightly off-the-wall sense of humour. If you laugh at my jokes I know just the therapist for you.
I continually strive to be a better person. I believe that emotional and intellectual growth should be a lifelong journey. And if someone wants to join me on that journey, so much the better.
I'm slightly neuro-spicy.
My hobbies are boring (reading, computer games) but my interests are varied (politics, aircraft, programming, history, war, and more). I can be convinced to try new things - that's part of the growth I mentioned.
About His Ideal Match
I'm looking for an intelligent, professional, self-sufficient woman. An intellectual who can challenge my mind.
If you're also a touch neurodivergent we'll be able to understand each other, but if you're a caring, compassionate neurotypical that'd also be great. Note that I've been badly hurt by an unmedicated polar bear before, so that could be a challenge.
I'd like someone who would be as happy to go with me to Discworld Day as to sit next to me for an afternoon just chilling. Or someone with diverse interests that could broaden my horizons. That said, I don't see myself going to night clubs. 😂
But also, for all that I try to come across as high-minded, I'm still a sucker for a butt I could worship.😈
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Midrand, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
182cm (5' 11.7") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Atheist | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Central & Western Gauteng (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
153cm (5' 0.2") - 183cm (6' 0.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body Hair: |
Hairy |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality Traits: |
Funny; Intelligent; Outspoken; Pessimistic; Sarcastic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Heavy Metal; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fantasy; History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Documentary; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Fish |
Turn-ons: |
Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
At home with a good book |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |