In His Own Words
About Him
“I’m a working man building a solid life and raising my son, who is my biggest priority.
In my free time I enjoy fishing, camping, golf, and gaming when I’m unwinding.
I also enjoy the simple things — watching movies, especially lying in bed on cold days, or sitting by a fire and switching off from everything.
Life has changed after a divorce, but I’m focused on moving forward and keeping things real, calm, and stable.
Looking for someone genuine who values peace, laughter, and real connection.”
About His Ideal Match
“I’m drawn to a woman who carries herself with calm confidence and doesn’t need chaos to feel alive.
Someone honest, emotionally steady, and kind in how she treats people when no one is watching.
A good sense of humour, a warm heart, and the ability to enjoy both quiet nights and simple adventures matter more to me than anything flashy.”
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Newcastle (Avirly hill), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
48 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
178cm (5' 10.1") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Newcastle (KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 46 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
149cm (4' 10.7") - 170cm (5' 6.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Black | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Outgoing; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Crime; History; Horror; Sci-Fi |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Horror; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Cricket; Rugby |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; Japanese; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Doing household chores |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Socially |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |