In Her Own Words
About Her
I don’t want a situationship. I want a grown man who communicates, commits, and shows up like he actually means it. I’ve outgrown the wishy washy energy. I’ve outgrown the people who say let’s just see where this goes while clearly having no idea where they’re going. Give me honesty. Give me consistency. Give me something I don’t have to second guess in the middle of the night. If you can’t love me out loud, then don’t love me at all. I want love that feels bold, intentional, and safe… not hidden, hesitant, or half hearted. I want a connection that stands tall even on the hard days, something real, something steady, something two grown people choose on purpose. Because anything less than that is not for me anymore.
About Her Ideal Match
Sometimes,
your boyfriend won't be the romantic guy you see in movies, the kind of guy who trends on social media for buying his lady roses filled with R200 notes...
maybe he won't even show you off or do cheesy stuff like buying you heels and lingerie for your anniversary.... But maybe he will always make sure you have transport to and from... he will fetch you from wherever and drive you to wherever...
Maybe he will make sure that you lack nothing. He will show up for you. Need material? He buys it for you. Need to take a short course? He offers to pay for it. You're hungry after a long day at work? He will cook you a nice meal, share jokes with you, and rub your feet.
Maybe he won't spread rose petals for a romantic dinner, but maybe he will always make sure you're never hungry and you never lack anything. Maybe he will listen to you as you complain about your family, maybe his home will be a home which you can always run to when the world is against you.
Maybe his home will be your home. Maybe he will share everything with you... he will teach you things and he will pray with you. He is still a beautiful man, a man that loves me
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Stellenbosch (Fisantekraal), Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
31 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
152cm (4' 11.8") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Coloured | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Health / Social Care | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
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Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
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Male | ||
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32 - 42 | ||
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