In His Own Words
About Him
The people closest to me would tell you I'm steady, honest, and good company — the kind of person who listens properly and means what he says. I'm a father first, and being a dad to my two boys is the part of life I'm proudest of.
I like the finer things — fine dining, art, and antiques I've spent years collecting — but I'm just as content on the couch with a good film. I follow a bit of sport, though I'd rather watch a great movie than a match. I don't drink or smoke, and I've no time for games or pretence; what I value is honesty and maturity.
To relax, I keep it simple: time with my boys, a good meal, a quiet evening at home, or the small thrill of hunting down an antique I didn't know I needed.
My outlook? Life doesn't always go to plan, but you get to choose how you move forward. I'm choosing to do it with gratitude, good company, and an open mind — looking for genuine connection, not games.
About His Ideal Match
My ideal match is mature, genuine, and secure in herself — someone who's done with games and knows what she wants out of life. Kindness matters to me, and so does honesty; I'd rather have someone who tells me the truth gently than someone who tells me what I want to hear.
What makes a relationship work, in my experience, is communication and respect — two people who actually talk, who make space for each other's lives, and who choose each other on the ordinary days, not just the exciting ones.
I'd love to share the simple things: a good meal out, a quiet film at home, wandering through a market or gallery, and easy conversation that never feels like hard work. Someone comfortable being part of my world as a father, in time, would mean a great deal.
As for deal breakers — cigarettes are where I draw the line; I can't stand the smoke (a drink is no issue, and I vape myself so no judgement there). Beyond that, dishonesty and game-playing. I'm looking for something real.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Port Elizabeth (Walmer, Gqeberha), Eastern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
44 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Balding | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Atheist | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
E-cigarette User | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Wealthy |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Port Elizabeth Area (Eastern Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 180cm (5' 10.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Outspoken; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Business; History; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Investing; Painting; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Surfing the Internet; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Camping; Chess; Hiking; Hunting; Walking |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I'm online on weekdays only |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I don't have any family |
Family Closeness: |
I don't speak to my family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Honesty: |
Very |