In Her Own Words
About Her
I’m kind, active, and looking for something real—not just something convenient. I’m a strong, educated, independent, financially secure woman. I’ll say yes to adventures but also enjoy laid back ordinary days. I value effort, loyalty, and making memories. I enjoy the outdoors, reading and watching movies.
About Her Ideal Match
Someone kind, emotionally mature, active, and excited to build something real together.
Must be able to communicate openly and is emotionally available.
Someone who can laugh easily, show up consistently, and wants a teammate in life.
Someone who enjoys both adventures and quiet moments and believes effort matters.
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
44 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
174cm (5' 8.5") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Centurion; Pretoria (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
38 - 51 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Silly; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness |
Fashion Sense: |
Trendy (I wear whatever's new and now) |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Cooking; Healthy living; Investing; Reading; Shopping |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; Indian; Italian |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Nervous; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |