In His Own Words
About Him
*1. Based on our chat so far, here’s what a friend might pick up:*
- *No-nonsense*: You get straight to what you need. “Kraaifontein”, “Cape gate”, “Capitec”. No small talk.
- *Reliable*: You check details before acting. You wanted to know exact branch hours, not just general rules.
- *Soft-hearted under the surface*: You went from logistics to asking for a romantic story with [removed]. Friends often notice that switch — the person who handles business but secretly loves the lovey stuff.
About His Ideal Match
You’re straight to the point — “Kraaifontein”, “Cape gate”. No waffling. So you’d click with someone who’s also clear and honest. No games.
But you also asked for a romantic story with [removed], with that quiet milkshake moment. So your ideal person gets your no-nonsense side _and_ brings out the soft, unguarded side you don’t show everyone.
The story you liked had teasing, comebacks, and “queen of comebacks” vibes. Your person likely roasts you, but in the way that feels like love. They can take your jokes and dish them back.
You check details before moving — branch hours across 3 locations. You value reliability. So your match shows up when they say they will. Not flaky.
In the story, the moment was just a milkshake after moving a couch. Nothing fancy. Your ideal match turns errands, mall trips, and boring admin
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Stellenbosch (Cape Town), Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
25 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
143cm (4' 8.3") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Black | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Xhosa | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
E-cigarette User | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Wealthy |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in Africa | ||
Location: |
Stellenbosch (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
142cm (4' 7.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Black | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | ||
Home Language: |
Xhosa | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English; Xhosa | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student | ||
Occupation: |
Other | ||
Income: |
Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality Traits: |
Funny; Moody |
Valued Qualities: |
Friendliness; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Gospel / Religious |
Books: |
Business; History; Romance; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Dramas; Movie Channels |
Interests: |
Business news |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Lactose-free |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |