In Her Own Words
About Her
Loyal, curious, and slightly goofy. I listen well, laugh easily, and turn ordinary days into stories you’ll actually want to retell.
About Her Ideal Match
Someone who treats people right when no one’s watching. Kindness over ego. If you’re respectful to waiters, patient with kids, and honest even when it costs you, we’ll have the same foundation. Without that, the rest doesn’t matter.
If you’re intense and driven, you need someone calm who can talk you off the ledge. If you’re more laid-back, you need someone who pulls you out the house sometimes. Not a clone of you - a complement. The “we’re different but it works” kind.
I’d pick someone who asks questions over someone who has all the answers. Someone who thinks “why?” and “what if?” with you at 1am. Boredom kills more relationships than fights do.
Everyone argues. The ideal partner doesn’t throw insults or go silent for days. They say “I’m upset because…” instead of “You always…”. They can be mad at the problem, not at you. That’s rare and it’s gold.
Clingy isn’t cute long-term. The best partner has passions, friends, goals that aren’t you. Then when you come together, you’re choosing each other, not depending on each other. You’re a “we” because two whole people decided to be, not because two halves are trying to make one.
Cooking dinner, sitting in traffic, doing laundry - life is 90% boring stuff. The ideal match is someone who can laugh in the middle of that. Inside jokes, dumb dances in the kitchen, turning “we have no money” into “let’s make pasta and pretend it’s a restaurant”.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Bloemfontein (Senekal), Free State, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
22 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
Ask me later | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Ask me later | |
Other Languages: |
English; Sesotho; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in Africa | ||
Location: |
Gauteng; Free State, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
23 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
162cm (5' 3.8") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Black; Blue-Green; Brown; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Coloured; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
English; Sepedi; Sesotho; Tswana; Venda; Xhosa; Zulu | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Yes | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Regular; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Associates degree; Bachelors degree | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Transportation; Agriculture; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
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- Non-negotiable
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