In His Own Words
About Him
I am a driven Full Stack Developer who finds beauty in both clean code and functional design. Beyond the screen, I am passionate about calisthenics, physical discipline, and exploring the wisdom found in ancient philosophy. I value growth, intellectual curiosity, and living with purpose. I’m looking for someone who appreciates the balance between working hard on our dreams and enjoying the quiet, meaningful moments of life together.
About His Ideal Match
I am looking for a partner who is ready to build, evolve, and grow side-by-side. You are ambitious, kind-hearted, and value deep, authentic communication over surface-level interactions. I appreciate someone who can enjoy a good debate about life’s big questions just as much as a relaxed evening at home. Ideally, you are someone who believes in supporting each other’s aspirations while building a lasting foundation of love, loyalty, and shared success.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Katlehong (Germiston), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
34 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
173cm (5' 8.1") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Black | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Xhosa | |
Other Languages: |
English; Sesotho; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Struggling |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
24 - 44 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 180cm (5' 10.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Coloured; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
English; Sesotho; Swati; Tsonga; Tswana; Venda; Xhosa; Zulu | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An exhibitionist |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly; Wild & Crazy |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Electronic Dance Music; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; History; Religious; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Educational; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Documentary; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Painting; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Rugby; Soccer; Walking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Diabetic; Gluten-free; Sugar-free |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Stilt house in the jungle |
Politics: |
Ultra-conservative |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |