In Her Own Words
About Her
I ask good questions, challenge perspectives, and appreciate people who can do the same. I believe there’s a difference between attention and connection, I prefer the latter.
About Her Ideal Match
Someone confident, emotionally intelligent, communicative, kind, and consistent, with enough humour to survive life together. Someone confident and comfortable with trust, vulnerability, and chemistry that goes beyond surface level.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Bedfordview, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
46 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
177cm (5' 9.7") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Agnostic | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Western Cape; Limpopo; Gauteng; North-West, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
44 - 57 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
178cm (5' 10.1") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker; Heavy Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Latin; Pop / Top 40; Punk; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Crime; History; Non-fiction; Romance |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Photography; Reading; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Boxing; Hiking; Ice Hockey; Motorsport; Polo; Rugby; Sailing; Soccer; Swimming |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Tattoo(s); Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Long hair |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |