In His Own Words
About Him
My friends would probably describe me as thoughtful, curious, and easy to talk to—someone who listens well but also knows how to keep things interesting with a bit of humor. I value honesty and kindness, and I tend to be the one people come to when they need a grounded perspective.
I like good conversation, new experiences, and anything that sparks curiosity—whether that’s trying a new restaurant, diving into a random topic, or exploring a new place. I’m not a big fan of unnecessary drama, close-mindedness, or anything that feels forced or fake.
I have a mix of interests: I enjoy learning about different subjects, staying active in simple ways, and occasionally getting lost in a good show, book, or idea. I appreciate both social moments and quiet time to recharge.
For fun, I like keeping things balanced—sometimes it’s going out and doing something spontaneous, other times it’s just relaxing, unwinding, and enjoying the moment without rushing.
My outlook on life is pretty straightforward: stay open, keep growing, and don’t take things too seriously. I think life is better when you’re genuine, curious, and willing to enjoy both the big moments and the small ones.
About His Ideal Match
My ideal partner is someone who is grounded, kind, and emotionally intelligent—someone who knows who he is but is still open to growing. He’s the type of person who communicates honestly, listens without judgment, and shows up consistently.
I’m drawn to someone with a good sense of humor who doesn’t take life too seriously but still has ambition and direction. He values meaningful connection, respects boundaries, and treats people with genuine care.
He enjoys both adventure and quiet moments—whether that’s exploring somewhere new or just relaxing together without needing constant stimulation. Most importantly, he’s authentic. Someone who is comfortable being himself and encourages the same in me.
At the core, I’d want a partnership that feels supportive, easy, and real—where we can challenge each other, grow together, and genuinely enjoy each other’s presence.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
23 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
156cm (5' 1.4") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Zulu | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Current University / College Student | |
Occupation: |
Student | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
20 - 36 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
157cm (5' 1.8") - 185cm (6' 0.8") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Grey | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Black/African; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Yes | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Halaal | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Quiet; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Colour: |
White |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Country & Western; Gospel / Religious; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Pottery; Reading; Sewing |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Chess; Soccer |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I'm a student |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Other |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |