In His Own Words
About Him
So here you are, Welcome. Let me be honest right from the start: I’m looking for a partner who knows what she wants. Honesty, no ifs or buts, is a must. Let’s put all that nonsense aside—we’re here because things didn’t go as planned. I’m looking for a reliable partner who also knows how to appreciate the little things in life. You have kids? Fine, no problem. I can’t replace their father, but I can be a good friend to them. I enjoy long conversations over a glass of wine or beer. My interests are varied, and I have plenty to talk about. Sometimes it’s enough to just do nothing and simply enjoy life. So if you’re still reading this, good—I took the time to fill out my profile as accurately as possible. What you see is what you get. There’s no point in putting on a show—in a few weeks or months, we’ll know who we really are anyway. So let’s save ourselves the disappointment if you’re not really interested. But if you do want to get to know me, I look forward to hearing from you. I definitely won’t rush things. Now I’m looking forward to your message.
About His Ideal Match
My perfect match is someone who meets me with kindness, emotional stability, and genuine respect, supportive of my goals, secure in your own identity, and committed to growth.
Values: honesty, empathy, and shared core values like integrity, compassion, and life vision. Make me laugh and take life not soooo serious.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
Germany | |
Location: |
Ballito, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
179cm (5' 10.5") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
German | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Agnostic | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Trying to Quit | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable |
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