In His Own Words
About Him
Because I genuinely love a good conversation, the kind that makes you think, laugh, or see something in a new way. I'm someone who values real connections, and while I have a wonderful family and a tight circle of friends who keep me grounded, there's always room for someone special.
I've been taking my time re-entering the dating world, and honestly, I think that says something about how seriously I take it. I'd much rather meet for a real coffee and see where the conversation takes us than spend weeks exchanging texts that go nowhere.
When I'm not out making memories with the people I care about, you might find me deep in a PC gaming session, yes, I'm that person! But I balance it out with a genuine curiosity about life and the people in it.
If you enjoy meaningful conversations, a bit of mystery, and someone who'll actually show up, let's find a coffee shop and start exploring life's adventures together. 😊
About His Ideal Match
I'm looking for a woman who is real, not perfect, just genuine. Someone who can hold a great conversation, isn't afraid to share her opinions, and is just as curious about the world as I am. A little wit goes a long way too! 😄
I'll be honest, looks matter to me. I'm drawn to a woman who is slender, takes care of her body, and has that natural attractiveness that comes from healthy living. Good skin, a warm smile, and that youthful energy that comes from genuinely looking after yourself. Ideally someone roughly in my age range as I'm 43 and looking for someone at a similar stage of life.
I want an equal partner with her own passions, ambitions, and independence. If you have children I completely respect that, but I'm not looking to step into a Dad role. Monogamy is everything to me, and if something feels like it's shifting between us, please talk to me rather than go quiet. I promise I'm worth talking to.
What you can expect from me:
I'm a doting partner and your emotions matter to me. I'll always make time to really listen, whether you need advice, an open ear, or a shoulder to lean on. I'm emotionally available and not afraid to show it.
For a first date, coffee somewhere relaxed followed by a gentle walk with no time limit. That coffee could easily turn into lunch or dinner, depending on where the day takes us.
For weekends, I love escaping the city. In winter, a cosy spot with a fireplace. In summer, somewhere we can swim and unwind. Either way, privacy matters, and I want you to feel completely free and comfortable with no reason to hold back. 😏
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Sandton (Morningside), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
43 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
182cm (5' 11.7") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
E-cigarette User | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Sales and Marketing | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Bedfordview; Edenvale; Midrand; Randburg; Sandton (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
31 - 40 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 174cm (5' 8.5") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Auburn; Red; Black | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Several tattoos |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Country & Western; Folk; Heavy Metal; Rock |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Gardening; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Extreme sports; Golf; Motorsport; Pool; Rugby; Snooker |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Indian; Italian; Sushi; Thai |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
House in the suburbs |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |