In His Own Words
About Him
Ek is ’n enkel ouer van vier seuns—sterk, maar nie sonder letsels nie. Die lewe het my al diep geraak, en elke wond het my versigtiger gemaak om weer te vertrou. Tog, tussen die swaarkry en verantwoordelikheid, bly daar iets sag in my oor: ’n stille geloof dat mense kan verander, dat liefde weer kan groei, en dat tweede kanse nie ’n teken van swakheid is nie, maar van hoop.
About His Ideal Match
My ideale pasmaat is ’n vrou met ’n sagte hart en ’n sterk ruggraat—iemand wat nie net vir my kies nie, maar ook vir my vier seuns. Sy verstaan dat ons ’n span is, en sy bou haar plek met geduld, respek en opregte omgee. Sy probeer nie iemand anders wees nie, maar bring haar ware self, en skep ’n veilige ruimte waar almal kan behoort.
Sy glo in eerlikheid en oop kommunikasie. Wanneer iets haar pla, hou sy dit nie terug of laat dit opbou nie—sy praat dit uit, kalm en reguit, sodat ons saam oplossings kan vind voordat dinge te groot raak. Sy luister ook met ’n oop hart en oordeel nie vinnig nie.
Sy is betroubaar en konsekwent, iemand wat wys dat haar woorde en dade ooreenstem. Sy verstaan dat vertroue vir jou tyd vat, en sy druk nie nie—sy bou dit stadig, met respek en geduld. Sy sien jou verlede nie as ’n struikelblok nie, maar as deel van wie jy is, en sy waardeer die krag wat dit jou gegee het.
Saam met haar voel jy nie net geliefd nie, maar ook verstaan en ondersteun—iemand wat saam met jou wil groei en werk aan ’n toekoms waar julle as gesin kan floreer.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Randfontein, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
47 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") | |
Body Type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Krugersdorp; Randfontein; Roodepoort (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") - 180cm (5' 10.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | ||
Other Languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Student; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Other; Agriculture; Political | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Gospel / Religious; Pop / Top 40; Punk; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Motoring; Movie Channels; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Soap operas |
Movie Frequency: |
It's a weekly ritual |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |