In His Own Words
About Him
I’m genuine, driven, and loyal. I bring good energy, real conversations, and consistent support, making connections meaningful, fun, and worth keeping over time..and ohhh like cooking too.
About His Ideal Match
My ideal match is someone grounded but curious, emotionally intelligent, and able to communicate openly without games. They have their own ambitions and identity, yet genuinely value partnership and growth together. A good sense of humor matters—someone who can laugh easily, even in stressful moments. They’re respectful, consistent, and kind, not just in big gestures but in everyday actions. There’s mutual attraction, of course, but also real friendship underneath it. They challenge me in a healthy way, support my goals, and aren’t afraid to be honest. Loyalty, effort, and emotional maturity aren’t negotiable—they’re the baseline.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Secunda, Mpumalanga, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
34 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
Ask me later | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Black | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Ask me later | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Food Services | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
KwaZulu-Natal; Mpumalanga; Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 47 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 179cm (5' 10.5") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Coloured; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
English; Sesotho; Tswana; Zulu | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Several tattoos |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Outgoing; Quiet; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Business; History; Religious; Romance; Sci-Fi; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; War |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Healthy living; Knitting; Reading; Shopping |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Martial arts; Soccer |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Doing household chores |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |