In Her Own Words
About Her
I’m a grown woman with presence, depth, and a life I’ve built with intention.
I enjoy good music and dancing, and quiet evenings with a drink and a film. I’m funny, expressive, and I value meaningful conversation and a whole lot of laughter.
I’m looking for a genuine friendship with someone grounded, respectful, and emotionally mature. No drama, no confusion, just clarity, ease, and real connection.
About Her Ideal Match
Boundaries and respect and a good sense of humour are a priority. Fun, adventurous, love to dance and music. Let’s go on a weekend away or let’s stay home and braai kinda dude. Don’t be a menace to my peace, I don’t do vibes. Low maintenance. Athletic, look after yourself. General good person, considerate with a little chivalry.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Midrand, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
50 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
167cm (5' 5.7") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Tswana | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Sepedi; Sesotho; Spanish; Xhosa; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
It's Complicated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
E-cigarette User | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Sales and Marketing | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
South Africa; Canada; Mexico | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
47 - 84 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; White; Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; Partnered | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Silly; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Latin; Rock; World |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; History |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Nature / Wildlife; Sport |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Independent; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Photography; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Athletics; Basketball; Cricket; Curling; Cycling; Extreme sports; Golf; Hiking; Horse Riding; Rugby; Running; Skateboarding; Tennis |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in an open relationship |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Nervous |
Honesty: |
Quite |