In Her Own Words
About Her
I’m someone who values emotional availability, decisiveness, and a strong sense of staying power. I’m passionate about the outdoors and love nature, and I enjoy deep, intellectual conversations. While I’m not into clubs and pubs, I do appreciate quiet, meaningful moments. I’m also deeply interested in metaphysics and love exploring life's mysteries.
About Her Ideal Match
I’m looking for someone who’s confident, emotionally available, and shares a love for nature and meaningful conversations. If you’re someone who’s curious about the universe and enjoys thoughtful exploration, we’ll get along great!
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Wellington (Malmesbury Moorreesburg), Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
48 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Aries; Gemini; Sagittarius; Aquarius | ||
Height: |
176cm (5' 9.3") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Curly |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Mystery; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Interests: |
Business news; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Photography; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Walking |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Fine Dining; Indian; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Carb-free |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
My friends are my main family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |



