In Her Own Words
About Her
I’m a widow at age 52. Looking for only Caucasian mates only. I have a valid 10 year USA visa so it’s easy for me to travel to the USA and meet the man of my dreams. I’m a sane, caring person who genuinely enjoys helping others and doing my part to make the world a better place. I love good humour and meaningful conversations, the kind that make you think and smile at the same time.
Books that intrigue and fascinate are my escape, and I’m still curious about life and people. I’m wondering if it’s possible, even in our later years, to fall in love again and feel that spark that makes you a little bit crazy in the best way.
I’m looking forward to something different, exciting, and authentic where laughter, kindness, and connection matter most.
I have an 18 year old daughter who is a Tennis player. My favorite bands are REM, Hootie and the blowfish and the Cranberries. Let’s hook up if you know any of these bands. Pls not interested in black men. It’s my choice and preference.
About Her Ideal Match
Only white men who likes to travel out and cook. Not interested in black guys or any other race. He is kind, emotionally intelligent, and grounded, the type of man who finds beauty in small things and meaning in genuine connection. He has a calm, nurturing energy that puts people at ease, but he’s not dull, there’s a mischievous humour and sparkle in his eyes that remind you he’s fully alive.
He believes in kindness but isn’t naïve. He’s been through enough in life to appreciate what’s real and what’s not. He wants depth, laughter, and someone who listens as much as talks.
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg (Kensington), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
52 | |
Star Sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Red | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Other | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
South Africa; Canada; United States; Ireland; United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
53 - 66 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English; French; German; Italian; Portuguese | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | ||
Education: |
Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Medical / Dental; Technical / Science / Engineering | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have a chronic illness |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Slapstick |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Gospel / Religious; Punk; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Horror |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Singing; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Bored to death |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; German; Japanese; Seafood; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Stressed |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Watching TV or a movie |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Turn-ons: |
Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Doing volunteer work |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |



