In His Own Words
About Him
True story: Age is just a number, don't let it fool you. I live a young, adventurous life filled with international travel, new experiences, and lots of excitement. I'm independent, not clingy, and I appreciate giving someone space to live their own life too.
I also have two wonderful daughters, 15 and 18, who live with me full time, but that's a story for another day.
You have nothing to lose, except maybe the chance for a great connection or friend....or take note of........
Charlie Chaplin....
He was 54. She was just 18.
A 36-year age gap separated them — but something deeper connected them.
When Charlie Chaplin asked Oona O’Neill to marry him, he said:
“Marry me so I can teach you how to live, and you can teach me how to die.”
Oona smiled and replied:
“No, Charlie. I’ll marry you so you can teach me how to grow up and enjoy life —
and I’ll teach you how to stay young, all the way to the end.”
Their relationship wasn’t just about love — it was a true partnership.
They shared 34 years of marriage, raised eight children, and stayed devoted to each other until the very end.
Oona was by his side when he took his last breath.
Their story shows that love doesn’t follow rules about age.
Sometimes, it’s simply about finding someone who helps you become better.......Therfore don't be blinded by a number 😀🤷♂️😀
About His Ideal Match
I’m drawn to an independent, emotionally mature woman with a love for adventure and travel, quiet bush weekends, hiking and long ocean walks. Someone who appreciates laughter, values family, and believes in a connection built on freedom, trust, and genuine commitment. A relationship where two whole people choose each other, every day, even during distance and time apart...
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
64 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
176cm (5' 9.3") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Pretoria (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
153cm (5' 0.2") - 180cm (5' 10.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; New Age; Pop / Top 40; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Crime; History; Romance; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Motoring; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Healthy living; Making Music; Meditation; Photography; Reading; Singing; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Bodyboarding; Bungee jumping; Camping; Fishing; Hiking; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Rugby; Scuba diving; Skiing; Sky diving; Snorkeling; Squash; Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Nervous; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |