In Her Own Words
About Her
Im a complex imperfect person who is still figuring things out.
Im a thinker - sometimes an over thinker. I analyze situations, emotions and conversations to death. It can be exhausting, but its also what makes me empathetic and understaning.
Im a total softie. I love affection - physical, touch, words of affirmation, the works. Its how I show love and receive it, so if you're not a hugger or a cuddler, we might need to find other ways to connect.
I'm not perfect and never will be. I have flaws, I make mistakes and I learn from them. I'm working on being kinder to myself, but its a work in progress.
If you are looking for a hot, sexy, super attractive woman and you are focusing purely on the outside then please keep scrolling. I have my curves and working on my body and mind. So if you dont value or want to know whats on the inside then please lets not waste each others time.
Anyway back to more about me
Despite all things I'm a loyal and loving partner, friend and family member. I will show up for you, listen to you and support you on your dark days, through thick and thin.
If you are looking for someone who is authentic, empathetic and a little quirky and you dont mind a few extra kilos, then lets get to know each other.
About Her Ideal Match
My ideal match is someone who is genuine, kind-hearted and has a great sense of humor. Someone who embodies kindness, empathy and authenticity. They are confident in who they are without pretenses or apologies.
They are romantic at heart, who isn't afraid to show affection and love openly. Physical touch, sweet gestures and thoughtful surprises are their love language
What draws them to someone isn't superficial qualities, but beauty within. They see beyond the surface level and appreciate the complexities, quirks and passions that make a person unique.
My ideal match values depth over superficiality, substance over status and connection over convenience. They are looking for a partner to share in life's adventures, laughter and tears - not just a plus-one for social events.
If you are someone who wears your heart on your sleeve, values meaningful conversations and believes in the beauty of vulnerability, then I would love to connect and see where this goes.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Alberton (New Redruth), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
41 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
174cm (5' 8.5") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Benoni; Boksburg; Brakpan; Kempton Park; Alberton; Bedfordview; Germiston; Roodepoort; Sandton; Meyerton; Vanderbijlpark; Vereeniging; Johannesburg (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female; Male | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 58 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Straight |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Moody; Outgoing; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Heavy Metal; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Horror |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Music Channels; Reality shows; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Extreme sports; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Martial arts; Swimming |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Erotica; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |