In His Own Words
About Him
Ich mag Sprache, gute Gespräche und Gedanken, die nicht beim Offensichtlichen stehen bleiben. Humor spielt dabei für mich eine große Rolle – gern ironisch, gern ein wenig schräg, gern mit Sinn für das Absurde. Ich lache über Kluges wie über Banales und schätze Albernheit dort, wo sie passt.
Meine Interessen sind vielseitig und reichen auch in technisch-naturwissenschaftliche Bereiche hinein. Gleichzeitig sind mir Wärme, Verlässlichkeit und echte Nähe wichtig. Zärtlichkeit, gemeinsame Zeit und ein Gefühl von Verbundenheit gehören für mich genauso zu einer Beziehung wie geistiger Austausch.
Ich genieße Nähe, schätze aber ebenso Eigenständigkeit – auf beiden Seiten. Mir ist wichtig, einander Raum zu lassen und dennoch bewusst füreinander da zu sein. Offenheit und die Fähigkeit, eigene Wünsche und Grenzen auszusprechen, empfinde ich dabei als große Stärke.
About His Ideal Match
Ich freue mich über eine Partnerin, die Freude an Gesprächen hat, die gern denkt, fragt, lacht und auch ironische Zwischentöne schätzt. Es darf um Wichtiges gehen oder um Alltägliches – entscheidend ist für mich, dass ein lebendiger Austausch entsteht.
Wärme, Zärtlichkeit und gegenseitiges Interesse sind mir ebenso wichtig wie geistige Nähe. Eine akademische Prägung kann passen, entscheidender ist für mich jedoch Neugier, ein wacher Geist und eine eigene, persönliche Sicht auf die Welt.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
Germany | |
Location: |
Paderborn, Nordrhein-Westfalen, Germany | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
67 | |
Star Sign: |
Ask me later | |
Height: |
182cm (5' 11.7") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
German | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Agnostic | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
PhD / Post Doctoral | |
Occupation: |
Medical / Dental | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Paderborn (Nordrhein-Westfalen, Germany) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
50 - 67 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
151cm (4' 11.4") - 182cm (5' 11.7") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
German; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer; Legal; Medical / Dental; Retired; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium; Straight; Well-behaved; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Body Hair: |
Shaved |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Intelligent; Mild; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Jazz; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Computer & video games; Computer programming; Investing; Photography; Surfing the Internet |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Chess; Cycling |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |