In Her Own Words
About Her
I believe that loves makes the world go round. I am naturally affectionate, loving and nurturing.
Connection, chemistry, compatibility and kindness is very important to me. I care a lot about a lot, and feel deeply.
I absolutely love camping - that's my happy place. Travelling, going to the bush, dancing, playing padel or sitting around a fire just chatting are all favourite pass times.
I'm naturally creative - always pottering around creating something. It feeds my soul.
Loneliness I do not like. We are meant to have partners to do life with. That's why I'm here. No casual hook ups... I'm looking for someone to sit on the stoep with.
About Her Ideal Match
You are a kind, loving and an all-round nice guy. You care about things in this world. You treat a woman respectfully, like the queen she is. You have her back and you're someone she can rely on.... And then of course you will receive all of that right back.
You are in touch with your emotions and value a connection with a woman. You want to make her feel good. You choose her every day. You want her by your side. You want to explore new things, or at least be open to it. You're honest and you're too old to play games.
If this is you, we're on the right track.
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
City Bowl (Cape Town), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
50 - 69 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
174cm (5' 8.5") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Other | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Long |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
White |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Painting; Photography; Sculpting; Sewing; Shopping |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Badminton; Bowling; Camping; Dancesport; Hiking; Ice Skating; Snooker; Snorkeling; Squash; Surf skiing/kayaking; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s) |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |




