In Her Own Words
About Her
59, With a curious mind, a passport close at hand, and a firm belief that life should still surprise you.
I’m drawn to the pleasures that make life feel richer: a conversation so engaging that time quietly disappears, coffee that becomes an unhurried walk, a beautiful street found by chance, or a hidden café that makes you want to linger just a little longer.
I admire those who climb mountains and conquer gruelling bike rides—though I’m perfectly happy to offer enthusiastic support from a rather more comfortable café. My idea of adventure is discovering somewhere new, taking the scenic route, and having enough laughter along the way to make the journey as memorable as the destination.
I value experiences over possessions, independence with a generous spirit, and the kind of connection that begins with friendship and grows into something deeper—built on warmth, trust, curiosity, and a shared appreciation for life's finer moments.
I travel with an open mind, a mischievous smile, and a few charmingly mispronounced foreign phrases that are best enjoyed in person. I’m endlessly curious about the world and even more interested in the people who make it interesting.
I’m looking for someone who is kind, confident, emotionally intelligent, and still capable of being delightfully spontaneous. Someone who appreciates both the grand adventure and the quiet moment when two people realise they’re enjoying simply being together.
Perhaps the best adventures are the ones you never quite planned—and the most enchanting chapters are still unwritten.
About Her Ideal Match
I’m drawn to a man who shows care through his actions rather than just words, who values kindness over ego, and who embraces laughter over drama.
Someone who can make me laugh, and effortlessly switch from deep, meaningful conversations to ridiculous, silly jokes.
I admire a man who handles life’s curveballs with a grin, who is authentic, confident yet humble, and who lets his eyes tell the story — sunglasses-only pics need not apply.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria (Irene), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
149cm (4' 10.7") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Food Services | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
54 - 63 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
169cm (5' 6.5") - 197cm (6' 5.6") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Above Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Hebrew; Italian; Polish; Portuguese; Romanian; Russian | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Quiet; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Latin; Opera |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; History; Non-fiction |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; War |
Interests: |
Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Diabetic |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Sarcasm |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Honesty: |
Extremely |