In Her Own Words
About Her
As the song goes, That's what friends are for...
I'm a good friend, a good listener, encourager.Christian environmentalist. I live in the core of the Cradle, NW Gauteng.
Im a widow, not rich but comfortably taken care of by my family and Gods grace a cancer survivor. Live a simple life and enjoy it.
I'm a nurturer , whether it be people , animals or plants, I take care of them, feed them. My door is always open if someone needs a chat and tea or something more nourishing for body and soul .
Rest for your soul(sole) in my happy place with wide views and a bit of English country garden as much as the surrounding bush will allow here.
Occasionally like to cook for a crowd. Celebrate special occasions. Enjoy a glass of wine, watching the sunset, the stillness and wonder of Father Gods creation...He is my peace and security in this troubled world.
I'm not looking for a casual fling, a one night stand, occasional bed partner...
My faith values are strong, that's how Ive survived, alone mostly... except for the cats and wild animals.
Guess I'm just different and wont appeal to most
For now a friend would be good, we can enjoy the adventure of getting to know each other..
About Her Ideal Match
Where has chivalry gone? It would be so nice to meet such a gentleman. A kind, sincere, gentleman wanting a good friend.Someone who is still physically up to a slow hike, whether it be in my bit of paradise or exploring others. At our age we all have a health challenge, but we learn to cope..
Would you enjoy cooking a delicious meal with me and watching the sunset over a glass of wine?
Do you enjoy alone time., time to meditate?
Can you respect each others need for space, and allows each other to continue with the activities they enjoy and are called to do?
Even to joining in, taking part in each others activities. Learning new hobbies together or apart.
Allowing each other to breath, but look forward to getting together again and sharing, talking.
Able to agree to disagree. We are all individusls with different perspectives.
Good conversations, communication is NB.
I cant smell likes and dislikes and nor can you so lets talk.
What's your love language? Mine is serving. Its good to know.
Must like cats...they are my family.
An active Christian would be a bonus.
Life is a journey through good times and bad . Two is better than one on their own, coping with what happens in life.. Message me if you think we'll match..
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
Zambia | |
Location: |
Johannesburg (Lanseria), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
66 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
157cm (5' 1.8") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Gauteng; North-West, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
60 - 72 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
176cm (5' 9.3") - 187cm (6' 1.6") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Postgraduate degree | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; History; Mystery; Religious; Romance |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Cult Classics; Documentary; Mystery; Romance; Westerns |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Painting; Pottery; Reading; Sewing; Surfing the Internet; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Birdwatching; Camping; Dancesport; Extreme sports; Fishing; Hiking; Horse Riding; Snorkeling; Surfing; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I'm an only child |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Fish |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Retirement Plans: |
Doing volunteer work |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |