In His Own Words
About Him
I am a realist, I don't drink or smoke or take drugs. I did go through all those stages and survived.... I think my life experiences served well as a warning to my girls for NOT to do while still young. My work life revolves around creativity, design, manufacturing, art, craft, computers, cad, lasers, mold making and lots more. I really like cats because they are the only pets that choose to stay with us. We don't have to lock them behind a fence, they slouch on your bed/lap/keyboard/desk/table/chair etc because they choose to do so. I am not religious and I dislike narrow minded people. I love lots of different music (especially ElectroSwing), lots of movies and reading. I suppose I am kinda old school. My eldest daughter teaches in Korea and my youngest daughter looks after race horses in the UK. Both my daughters have grown up to be well educated, independent, elegant young ladies. I devoted my life to my daughters and now that they are sorted it is time for me to live my own life. What that life is exactly is open for debate... but I do know that that life should not be spent alone. The whole is way more than the sum of the parts....(aka the relationship becomes its own being)
About His Ideal Match
Difficult one - people grow on one another so it doesn't make sense to be too specific. A non-argumentative pretty best friend. Although I don't mind being on my own it is enjoyable to share a life with a complementary person. I enjoy spending time together, be it working, chilling, chatting, whatever. I have very wide knowledge base and general interests so I enjoy talking about any topic (even just to learn).
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs (Goodwood), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
60 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
173cm (5' 8.1") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 62 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 176cm (5' 9.3") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Obscure |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Intelligent; Optimistic; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Contentment; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Patience; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Country & Western; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; New Age; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; News; Sci-Fi; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Business news; Computer programming; Photography; Reading; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Motorsport |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; Italian; Pub Grub; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Watching TV or a movie |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |