In His Own Words
About Him
I like me. I'm at peace with who I am, on a beautiful upward journey. I'm not done living or growing.
I'm a good person who cares.
I love sharing life's richness.
I'm intelligent with a lively interest in many areas. There are many dimensions and layers to me. I enjoy talking about interesting stuff, sharing understanding and views, discussing and learning from other people.
I love music and it plays a big part in my life. I like many, many kinds of music. My roots are mostly blues and derivatives and relatives of the blues. I play, out of love of music and determination, in the absence of talent. I often have music playing at home, while I work, or while driving. I love sharing and talking about music.
I also enjoy the 'finer' arts including classical music, opera, theatre, painting, architecture, sculpture, ballet and so on. I read a lot from light fiction to autobiographies and other non-fiction and technical stuff.
I love exercising and being outdoors, as comfortable climbing or hiking the Berg or Table Mountain or kloofing, as birding or walking a long beach. Sport plays a big part in my life. I love to paddle on the sea or canoe down rivers.
I thrive on quality time with a warm, caring woman. Sapiosexual for sure. I'm very romantic, sensual, tantric. Touch is by far my love language. I delight in treasuring and pleasuring women with beautiful souls. Looking for a magical mix of love and lust and loyalty wrapped in respect.
I enjoy entertaining from time to time and enjoy cooking for others when inspired to.
I prefer quiet conversation with a few good friends. I'm known to dance the night away with the right music and company.
There are
... roads to be tripped in the big outdoors
... the moon, stars and horizons to be gazed at
... mountains to be hiked or climbed
... rivers and coastlines to be paddled
... tables to be danced
... necks and more to be kissed
.......
About His Ideal Match
Most important ... you like yourself and you're at peace with yourself deep down where it really matters.
You're a good person who cares.
You're a strong woman where it counts, emotionally, mentally and physically. Your inner strength allows you to be vulnerable and gentle. And also be pretty raunchy when the mood takes you.
You get that it takes courage to be real and to really care, it takes courage to be honest about the important stuff, it takes courage to open yourself when it matters. You're independent and can choose to be with someone because you want to. You know the difference between walls and boundaries.
You're mentally strong, you're intelligent, you have a wide range of interests, you have opinions and convictions with enough humility so you welcome learning and moving on to fuller knowledge and understanding.
You're physically fit, strong and confident. You regularly enjoy at least one physically demanding activity or sport.
In case this all begins to sound too serious ...
You have a good sense of humour, a lively sense of fun on top of your wide ranging and lively intelligence. You enjoy the arts, classical music, maybe opera, theatre, ballet, art, architecture and so on. At the same time you're cool being pretty lowbrow with dirty rock or blues ... and you love to dance! ... plus an edgy, funky, spunky, naughty side.
You're as comfortable at a ball as you are eating falafel from a street vendor.
As much as you enjoy being active you're also happy spending quiet evenings snuggling, watching a movie or listening to music with some wine or whisky, or tangling legs on a big couch chatting, or simply reading together. And ... if you enjoy long, loving massages, or extended sensual bed days, you've got my attention.
You're definitely romantic and sensual from deep down in the marrow of your being. Emotional, physical and sexual intimacy are vital.
Last thing ... No pics ... No comms.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Blaauwberg (Milnerton), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
70 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
184cm (6' 0.4") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
City Bowl; Northern Suburbs; Blaauwberg; Atlantic Seaboard; Southern Peninsula; Southern Suburbs; Helderberg (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
55 - 72 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
162cm (5' 3.8") - 190cm (6' 2.8") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Other |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Folk; Heavy Metal; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; Punk; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Crime; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Business news; Healthy living; Making Music; Painting; Photography; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Bodyboarding; Camping; Canoeing; Cycling; Hiking; Rock climbing; Sailing; Scuba diving; Surf skiing/kayaking; Swimming; Walking; Weight training; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |