In Her Own Words
About Her
Hi there… and thank you for taking a moment to read my profile.
I’m a straightforward, honest woman who says what I feel. I don’t do grey areas, if we choose each other, I believe in loyalty, clarity, and commitment. I’m not here for halfway connections or someone who changes direction mid‑journey.
I’m not looking for perfection. I’m looking for a partner I can trust, respect, and build a life with, someone real, grounded, and manly in his own way. A passionate, caring man who isn’t afraid to be himself… and preferably someone whose toolbox is at least as big as mine.
I’m comfortable in shorts and a T‑shirt, but I also love slipping into a beautiful black dress and heels for a special night out. I’m easygoing, extroverted, value‑driven, and I love excitement, cooking, entertaining, and connecting with children.
I’ve lived and worked across SADC countries, and those experiences shaped me. I know exactly what I want, and what I don’t. I’m not interested in a couch potato, nor someone controlling or jealous. If you enjoy camping, fishing, scuba diving (even just the basics), or sitting around a fire talking about everything and nothing… you’re already speaking my language.
I love simple, meaningful moments: a quiet fishing trip, a candle‑lit dinner, a warm fire under the stars, and deep conversations that make you forget about time. I want a partner who enjoys life, who is young at heart, and who wants to build memories together, the real kind.
Be safe, and hopefully we’ll chat soon.
About Her Ideal Match
My ideal partner is someone who is:
Family‑oriented and loves the outdoors
A true gentleman
Reliable and trustworthy
Grounded with realistic goals
Young at heart and enjoys life
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria (Mooikloof Rif), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star Sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
164cm (5' 4.6") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Changes Often | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Sales and Marketing | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
43 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
173cm (5' 8.1") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Trendy (I wear whatever's new and now) |
Favourite Clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Business; Fantasy; Fiction; Romance; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Painting; Photography; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Shopping; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Archery; Birdwatching; Bowling; Boxing; Camping; Canoeing; Cycling; Fishing; Flying / Gliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Mountain biking; Sailing; Scuba diving; Sky diving; Snorkeling; Swimming; Tennis; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Fine Dining; French; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I DO have a bed in my office! |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
My friends are my main family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Power; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Showing affection in public; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |