In Her Own Words
About Her
I am a woman drawn to depth, unembellished beauty, and the quiet intelligence of life lived with intention. There is a strength in the softness with which I move through the world.
Nature is where I feel most aligned; the ocean, in particular, feeds my soul. I find beauty in stillness, shifting light and landscapes that speak without needing attention. I am equally at home in thoughtful solitude as I am in shared moments of laughter and connection.
My world is shaped by simple pleasures: ocean swims, long walks through natural spaces, beautiful architecture, and undiscovered places. I enjoy cooking and lingering over a well-brewed coffee, reading often, and watching films that stay with me long after they end. I am continually inspired by art, design and interiors with soul. Music brings such joy—soulful melodic house, jazz and soundscapes that feel atmospheric rather than intrusive.
Creating warmth is instinctive to me. I am drawn to spaces and people that feel honest and unforced. There is an ease in how I care for others, a quiet attentiveness. I admire authenticity in its most unembellished form; people who are grounded, self-aware, and comfortable without pretence.
About Her Ideal Match
I am looking to meet a man of substance—grounded, emotionally intelligent, and quietly confident. Someone who has lived, learned, and softened with experience. A man with curiosity for life, warmth in his character and a natural sense of humour that brings lightness without effort. Success is attractive, but humility is what I admire most.
What I value most is connection that feels both effortless and meaningful—built on mutual respect, intellectual and emotional resonance, and the kind of chemistry that cannot be manufactured.
I believe in relationships that feel like expansion rather than completion. If you are someone who values depth, beauty, and sincerity—and you feel drawn to the possibility of something real and enduring—I would be glad to connect.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Riviersonderend, Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
64 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Red | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
58 - 68 | ||
Star Sign: |
Taurus; Cancer; Virgo; Libra; Scorpio; Sagittarius; Capricorn; Pisces | ||
Height: |
163cm (5' 4.2") - 200cm (6' 6.7") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Cycling; Gymnastics; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Skiing; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
Less than once a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair; Power; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |