In His Own Words
About Him
Here come those fifties, but trust me — I’ve still got fire in the braai and spark in the soul. I’ve built my career, raised a wonderful 21-year-old, and now? It’s time for me — and hopefully, you.
You’ll usually find me somewhere wild: barefoot in the bush, toes in the sand, coffee in hand, watching the world wake up. I'm the guy who sets up the tent properly, packs too many marshmallows, and still gets starry-eyed at a full moon and a fire crackle.
I cook with heart, braai like a champ, and yes — I even bake my own bread. I believe love is made of small moments: a soft touch, an inside joke, shared silence under the stars.
I’m not perfect, but I’m present. Loyal, warm, goofy when it counts, romantic always. If you're someone who values real connection, belly laughs, long walks, stolen kisses, and whispered “I’ve got you”s — then we should definitely talk.
Bonus points if you love the sound of waves, birds, or bacon in a cast iron pan.
About His Ideal Match
I’m hoping to meet a Lady who loves love — the kind of woman who melts when kissed on the forehead, smiles when I pull her close, enjoys when I hold her tight and she realizes that “I’ve got you” isn’t just a phrase, it’s a promise.
You don’t have to be perfect (thankfully, neither am I), but if you love to laugh, love to give and receive affection, and can appreciate a man who will fiercely protect what he loves — then we’ll probably get along just fine.
If you’ve got little ones? That’s not a red flag — it’s a green light. I love kids, and I respect a woman who’s made sacrifices for love and family. That strength? It’s beautiful.
Love the smell of garlic on your fingers from cooking? Or dirt on your shoes from a hike? You just might be my kind of woman. Bonus points if you love the outdoors, don’t mind camping (yes, real tents!), and think long beach walks are romantic, not cliché.
I’ll give you attention, affection, and a whole lot of TLC… but I’ll also need space when I’m focused on work. Mutual respect matters — I’m not into shouting matches or cutting sarcasm. I want us to build, not battle.
If you love hugs, kisses, long chats in the dark, and can handle a guy who’s equal parts goofy and protective — then what are we waiting for?
Let’s write a beautiful story together :-)
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria (Moreleta Park), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
49 | |
Star Sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English; Sesotho; Tswana | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
North America; Europe; South Africa | ||
Location: |
South Africa; Canada; United States; Belgium; Germany; Russia; United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Brown |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Motoring; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Sport; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Business news; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Healthy living; Investing; Making Music; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
American Football; Archery; Baseball; Basketball; Boxing; Camping; Chess; Cricket; Extreme sports; Flying / Gliding; Golf; Gymnastics; Hiking; Hunting; Martial arts; Motorsport; Pool; Rugby; Scuba diving; Shooting; Sky diving; Snooker; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Sugar-free; Carb-free; Other |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Eco home in the bush |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |