In His Own Words
About Him
Shy man, reading and soccer going out with friends, hiking, cooking, 1. *Grow*
Always be learning. Be 1% better than yesterday. Sort my stuff out so I don’t bring old baggage into new rooms. Like what you’re doing right now — “sorting my life so I can be the best of me.”
2. *Love*
People first. Be present. Actually listen. Tell the people I care about that I can’t lose them. Make them feel chosen, like you want to do for your babes.
3. *Show up*
When I say I’ll do something, I do it. When someone needs me, I’m there. No being absent. No half-listening. Full presence.
That’s it. Simple, but it keeps me grounded.
What about you? What’s _your_ lookout in life right now?
Is it about becoming the best version of you for her, for your goals, for peace of mind?
About His Ideal Match
1. Real*
Someone who’s honest even when it’s messy. Who says “I messed up” instead of hiding it. Who laughs loud, cries when it hurts, and doesn’t play games. I want the hell of a woman who’s unapologetically herself.
*2. Team*
Life gets heavy. I want someone who’s in my corner and lets me be in theirs. We listen. We show up. We sort our stuff out _and_ we do it together. No “me vs you”, just “us vs the problem”.
*3. Growth*
I’m working on being the best version of me. So I want someone who’s also trying to grow — kinder, wiser, funnier than last year. Someone we can challenge each other, cheer each other on, and build something with.
*Bonus*: Humor. Loyalty. And someone who hypes me up and also calls me out when I’m being absent or not listening 😉
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
City Bowl, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
46 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
146cm (4' 9.5") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Xhosa | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English; Sesotho; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
22 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Hairy chest only |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Shy; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Business; Fiction; History; Romance; Travel |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Independent; Romance |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Board games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Investing; Painting; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Woodworking |