In His Own Words
About Him
I am a fit, healthy, and socially presentable retired gentleman with no career pressures and complete time flexibility. I am financially secure and emotionally grounded, and I have reached a stage in life where I want to offer something rare: complete, unconditional surrender to the right worthy woman.
I am seeking a genuine Female Led Relationship (FLR). My submission is not a game or a fantasy—it is who I am. I find profound peace and purpose in obedience, servitude, and making a woman's life easier, more peaceful, and more pleasurable.
What I offer is total devotion. I will handle every practical aspect of your life—household chores, chauffeuring, errands, and personal assistance. But beyond that, I offer my ego, my will, and my body for your use and amusement. I am open to chastity and denial, control over my sexual pleasure, discipline and correction when I fail, and any form of training or "rewiring" you believe will make me a better servant.
I have no demands or expectations of my own. If you want to explore deeper power exchange—including cuckolding, where you are free to date others while I serve and facilitate—that is entirely your choice. If you simply want a reliable helper, that is enough for me too. I adapt to your desires completely.
I am reliable, discreet, and I understand that true servitude means accepting correction without excuses, and embracing your rules without hesitation.
About His Ideal Match
I am looking for a woman who is ready to embrace absolute authority in a Female Led Relationship. You may be single, partnered, straight, bisexual, or lesbian—none of that matters to me. What matters is that you have a natural confidence and a genuine desire to lead, to own, and to be served.
You do not need any prior experience as a Dominant. You simply need curiosity and the willingness to explore what feels right to you. Whether you are strict and demanding, or softly nurturing and firm, I will adapt to your style completely.
My ideal match is someone who values loyalty, discretion, and genuine devotion. She is a woman who wants her home to run smoothly, her needs to be anticipated, and her authority to be unquestioned. She is open to the idea that a man can exist purely to serve her—including intimacy and personal care, entirely for her pleasure and never for his own.
If you are interested in the freedom to date other men or women, I will actively support that—chauffeuring you to dates, helping you prepare, and stepping aside completely when you need privacy. If you wish to explore cuckolding, I will embrace that dynamic fully, always on your terms.
Above all, I am looking for someone who is open to discovering just how much a devoted, obedient, and disciplined male can enhance her life—whether that means practical support, intimate devotion, or complete power exchange. If that sounds like you, I would be honoured to hear from you.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
City Bowl, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
173cm (5' 8.1") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Grey | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
41 - 62 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Sarcastic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fiction; History; Mystery |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Motoring; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Healthy living; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Athletics; Backgammon; Cricket; Cycling; Hiking; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Rugby; Scuba diving; Skiing; Snorkeling; Walking; Water skiing |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at Work: |
I don't work |
Pastimes of choice: |
Doing household chores |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Honesty: |
Extremely |