In His Own Words
About Him
I am a retired, financially independent, intellectually curious man living in South Africa. My submission is a conscious, ego-free surrender—not desperation.
What I offer you:
· A confidante & strategist: I listen without judgment, dissect your dates, career, or family drama, and offer honest advice only when invited. I speak when spoken to and become a respectful shadow when you need privacy.
· Unconditional service: I demand zero specific kinks. My capacity (clearance, not a wishlist) ranges from domestic chores, chauffeuring, and butler duties, through chastity, edging, e-collar, and human furniture, to CNC, pegging, impact play, watersports, cuckolding (with cleanup), and full psychological rewiring. Start at Tier 1 and escalate at your pace—or ignore every kink and keep me as a devoted housekeeper and driver. I am equally fulfilled either way.
· A flauntable status symbol: Loan me to trusted friends for chores. Display me kneeling to your inner circle. I obey without flinching—cementing your reputation as the Queen of your social world.
· Reliability: I am available 24/7 or on-demand. My time is yours. No career, no excuses.
About His Ideal Match
A woman—single, partnered, bi, or lesbian—who craves the absolute ownership of a capable, devoted male. Your existing relationships are yours to define; monogamy is not required.
· Sapiosexual and intelligent. You are bored by small talk and aroused by wit, philosophy, and psychological depth. You want a man who can debate ideas with you over dinner and then kneel to worship your feet afterwards.
· Curious, but not necessarily experienced. No prior Dominance is required—only the desire to explore what a submissive, obedient male can offer. You set the pace. I adapt.
· Willing to entertain cuckolding (with a Bull or lover) if that appeals to you—but it is entirely optional.
What you get:
· A 30-day trial period with a negotiated psychological contract covering limits, aftercare, and expectations. You experiment freely. No pressure. No judgment.
· Absolute freedom from domestic drudgery, emotional labor, and relationship insecurity. You state a wish—cleaning, massage, brutal spanking, a deep conversation, or a public display—and it is done.
The gatekeeper:
To prove you have read this and possess the intellect I seek, open your message with the most thought-provoking book, film, or idea you have encountered this year—and why it resonated.
I will not reply to one-line messages, requests for money, or demands for WhatsApp.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
City Bowl (Cape Town), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
173cm (5' 8.1") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
It's Complicated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Associates degree | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
39 - 96 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Green | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Devotion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Minimal (Clothes are strictly optional) |
Favourite Clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; History; Mystery |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Motoring; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Documentary; Drama; Independent |
Interests: |
Cooking; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Cricket; Cycling; Hiking; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Rugby; Scuba diving; Skiing; Snorkeling; Walking; Water skiing; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm seeing someone, but not exclusively |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |