In Her Own Words
About Her
I am a happy soul and also a bit shy in new spaces. I am always eager to learn a new skill or knowledge. I am a good listener too. I am a family oriented and know what I want out of life. I am very traditional in a relationship and a sucker for love. I enjoy cooking and trying new recipes and taking up classes and I do enjoy a good travel when I get the chance. I am calm, gentle and not quick to anger. I am supportive and always want cheer the people I love. My philosophy in life is take life each day as it comes. We can plan all we want but life has ways of throwing surprises in our faces.
About Her Ideal Match
I want a man who is compassionately, caring, kind , gentle and knows what he wants. Someone willing to be patient with me and willing to put effort to make the relationship work. A person who understands what it means to be in a committed relationship with cues of communication , respect, humility. Someone who loves children and is willing to love ,care and nature as a father would. A relationship can only work when two people put effort and respect each other and listen to each other whenever one is upset or raises concern about an issue. We both have to learn to compromise and be selfless towards each other.
I don't want a man that is aggressive or pushy. I want a man that respects a woman and values me. The way you will value me is the way people around me will value me because it will show that I am valued.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Langebaan, Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
48 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
162cm (5' 3.8") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Ask me later | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Sales and Marketing | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Western Cape; Eastern Cape; KwaZulu-Natal; Mpumalanga; Limpopo; North-West; Northern Cape; Free State, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
54 - 70 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
156cm (5' 1.4") - 185cm (6' 0.8") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English; Finnish; French; German; Norwegian; Polish; Romanian; Swedish | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Long; Out of control; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced tongue; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Shy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Humour; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; New Age; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Non-fiction; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; News |
Movie Preferences: |
Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Reading; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Badminton; Camping; Fishing; Rugby; Softball; Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I always cook at home |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none; Lactose-free |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Fish |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Long hair; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |