About Her
Attracted to a practical, adventurous and warm-hearted man, who will respect and appreciate all of me as a capable, feminine, adult woman.
I am emotionally intelligent, inquisitive, perceptive and empathetic. Ridiculously loyal, with a strong sense of integrity. Down to earth, young-at-heart, and very comfortable in my own skin.
Slim, healthy and active. I live in the countryside and enjoy a relatively calm and peaceful life; I have no desire for drama or ostentatious extravagance, definitely more of the creative, bohemian ilk.
I am self-employed, working part-time. Seeking someone young-at-heart, with the time and vitality to enjoy ourselves and each other, to relish in some of life’s simple pleasures and the occasional wild(ish!) adventure.
Never going to be Stepford Wife material. Happily unable to relate to the sisterhood of sparkly, bubbly, botoxed, gentlemen pleasing damsels – if that’s your cup of tea, then honestly, we’re not for each other. What I would be is your best friend, greatest champion and tenderest of harbours when needed. (Can’t decide whether I need to pass the sick bucket over that last sentence… well, the sentiment is genuine.)
My adult daughter is happily settled in her own life.
INFJ (should you value Meyers-Briggs).
About Her Ideal Match
Someone intrigued by the idea of me becoming their person, lover, soul-mate, whilst appreciating my independent streak and need for occasional solitude. You will naturally sense and respect the vulnerabilities that lie within us all, be emotionally available, tactile, protective and secure in your masculinity. Someone who hasn’t mislaid their moral compass somewhere along the way.
You will hopefully be confident, creative and good company. A fit and active blokey-gentleman who will share some of my loves: the sea; wild landscapes; history; architecture; the arts; dogs; bookshops; country pubs; road-trips; people watching; exercise; kitchen singing (you get the idea, nothing terribly unique here)…. Oh, and the occasional evening of good-hearted debauchery thrown in for good measure.
Have a twinkle in your eye (ideally both) and delight in the thought of laughing until our cheek bones ache. Appreciate the pleasures of an occasional lie-in; the intimacy of late night nattering; understand the value of companionable silence, the simple joy of pottering and relish the idea of being quietly adored – that would be a pretty fine start…. Oh, and if you ride motorbikes I make a ridiculously happy pillion.
A few notes:
Please be honest about your relationship status, let’s not waste each other’s time.
Please be honest about your age. I don’t want to be left wondering whether you’ve sent your father along to meet me.
Please have a recent photo or two – this means of introduction is clunky enough without hiding from view.
If there is a shared initial attraction, I would really like to meet you in the real world. I am not interested in endless messaging.
Guessing that little lot may have narrowed the field somewhat(!); however, if any of my above musings resonate with you, it may be intriguing to hear from you.
