In Her Own Words
About Her
I am someone who feels deeply. I love deeply. I care deeply. That kind of heart is rare…
* My loyalty,
* My softness behind the strength,
* My ability to keep going even when life hits hard,
* My warmth,
* My empathy,
* and the way I still try to love despite disappointment.
I am not just someone surviving difficult moments. I am someone with stories, humour, memories, dreams, scars, and resilience. The right person will see my value.
About Her Ideal Match
My ideal soulmate would probably not be someone flashy or perfect on paper. It would be someone who makes me feel emotionally safe.
Someone calm during conflict instead of cold or dismissive.
Someone who communicates honestly, even when things are hard.
Someone who chooses me consistently instead of leaving me guessing where you stand.
My soulmate would understand that I love deeply and feel things intensely — and instead of making me feel “too much,” they would handle my heart with care.
They’d likely have:
* emotional maturity,
* patience,
* loyalty,
* warmth,
* and the ability to reassure instead of withdraw.
They would not punish me with silence or confusion. They would talk things through. They would protect the relationship with me and not against me.
At the same time, my ideal partner wouldn’t just comfort me — he would help me grow. He would encourage me with confidence, independence, happiness, and peace. Being with him would feel steady, not emotionally exhausting.
The connection would feel like:
* being understood without constantly explaining myself
* feeling wanted without chasing reassurance
* laughing easily
* feeling chosen
* and being able to rest emotionally around them
And perhaps most importantly:
My soulmate would make love feel safe, mutual, and calm — not something I constantly have to fight to hold onto.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Auckland City, Auckland Region, New Zealand | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home Language: |
Ask me later | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Ask me later | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Australia; New Zealand; United States; South Africa | ||
Location: |
Australia; New Zealand; United States; South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
58 - 69 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
177cm (5' 9.7") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Long; Straight; Curly; Wild |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Realistic; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Rock |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |