In Her Own Words
About Her
A mix of shy and bold—quiet at first, but once you’re comfortable, you open up and become expressive, funny, and full of personality.I Dislike Cold behavior, being ignored, fake energy, and people who are inconsistent or don’t match my effort. Drawn to things that let me express myself or just vibing in my own space. For fun/ relaxing I like Spending time with people I trust, watching shows, listening to music, or just having quiet time where I can recharge. You like a balance—sometimes being social, sometimes being in my own little world.I believe in love, loyalty, and real connections. I might get hurt sometimes because I give my all, but I still choose to love deeply. I value authenticity and want a life where I feel secure, appreciated, and genuinely happy—not just surface-level okay.
About Her Ideal Match
Someone emotionally mature and consistent. Not hot-and-cold, not confusing—just steady. Communicates clearly, show effort, and don’t disappear when things get real. Be affectionate and reassuring, enjoy closeness, texting me, spending time with me, and making me feel wanted. Not Make me feel like I'm “too much”but make me feel like Im finally understood.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Bloemfontein, Free State, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
27 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
166cm (5' 5.4") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Coloured | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Ask me later | |
Drinking: |
Ask me later | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
KwaZulu-Natal; North-West; Northern Cape; Free State, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
28 - 39 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Large | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown; Dark Brown; Black | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Hindu; Muslim | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Yes | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Halaal; Hindu diet | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Optimistic; Realistic; Shy; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Gospel / Religious; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; Romance |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Cooking / Baking; Dramas; Music Channels |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Adult; Drama; Horror; Romance; Westerns |
Interests: |
Acting; Cooking |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Golf; Horse Riding; Motorsport; Pool; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Watching TV or a movie |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |