In His Own Words
About Him
Curious
Analytical
Direct
Emotionally aware
Independent-minded
Think deeply before trusting people
Notice contradictions quickly
I like understanding who people really are beneath appearances
I value honesty over performance
I prefer substance over small talk
I often test how people think before deciding what I think of them
I have a strong internal standard for what feels genuine
Good judge of tone and intention
Able to read between the lines
Patient when something matters, but impatient with nonsense
About His Ideal Match
Emotionally mature — someone who communicates clearly instead of creating confusion
Authentic — not performative, not pretending, just real
Intelligent in conversation — someone who can go beyond small talk and hold depth 🧠
Calm energy — not overly dramatic, but not emotionally distant either
Loyal — someone consistent, whose actions match their words
Respectful of independence
Comfortable enough to lower your guard
Mentally engaged, not bored
Respected rather than managed
Safe enough to be honest
Character
Reliability
Emotional honesty
The ability to understand nuance
Someone who has warmth but also inner discipline — someone kind, but not weak; confident, but not loud
Someone who brings peace, depth, and trust — not noise
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
eMkhondo (Piet Retief) (Piet Retief), Mpumalanga, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
169cm (5' 6.5") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Trying to Quit | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
eMkhondo (Piet Retief) (Mpumalanga, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 155cm (5' 1.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable |
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- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
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