In Her Own Words
About Her
I’m naturally more introverted, but I come alive in the right company. I value depth, honesty, and a good sense of humour — I enjoy both deep conversations and light, easy moments.
I love the simple, beautiful things in life: a great meal, a good book, peaceful surroundings, and sunset with a glass of wine. I’m a good cook and enjoy hosting small, meaningful gatherings with close friends rather than big crowds.
My faith is important to me and shapes how I live and love. I appreciate someone who is emotionally steady, communicates openly, and shows up with consistency. Someone kind, genuine, and intentional — someone who appreciates a calm, meaningful life and is ready to build something real.
About Her Ideal Match
Someone who is Faith-led
• Someone who takes their faith seriously, not just culturally Christian
• Lives with values, not just word
Who is Emotionally mature
• Communicates openly and honestly
• Consistent (not hot-and-cold)
• Self-aware and steady
Values depth over surface
• Enjoys meaningful conversations, not just small talk
• Thinks about life, growth, purpose
Calm, grounded lifestyle
• Not into chaos, drama, or constant socialising
• Comfortable with peaceful environments, slower pace
• Likely enjoys things like dinners, coffee, nature, quiet time
Intentional & serious (but not heavy)
• Looking to build something real, not casual dating
• Shows effort and follows through
Kind with a sense of humour
• Warm, emotionally safe
• Can be light and playful — not rigid or overly intense
Social in a meaningful way
• Enjoys small, intimate gatherings
• Values close relationships over big crowds
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Helderberg (Somerset West), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
155cm (5' 1.0") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
White | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Blaauwberg; Helderberg; Franschhoek; Paarl; Stellenbosch; Greyton; Swellendam; Montagu; George; Mossel Bay; Stilbaai; Barrydale; Prince Albert (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
60 - 79 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
173cm (5' 8.1") - 188cm (6' 2.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Coloured; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English; French; German; Greek; Portuguese | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Dutch; English; French; German; Greek; Italian; Portuguese; Spanish | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree | ||
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Intelligent; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Game shows; Motoring; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Romance |
Interests: |
Acting; Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Knitting; Photography; Reading |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Eco home in the bush |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |