In Her Own Words
About Her
Entrepreneur, ocean lover and eternal optimist building a life I love in Cape Town.
You’ll usually find me starting the day with a cold ocean swim, chasing a beautiful sunset, planning my next adventure, or dreaming up my next business idea over a really good cup of coffee.
I believe life is meant to be lived fully - the Italian way… good food, great conversation, spontaneous adventures and appreciating the small moments that make life magic.
Friends would say I’m warm, curious and a little mischievous. I’m equally happy hiking a mountain, cycling along the coast, or dressing up for a long dinner with laughter and great wine.
About Her Ideal Match
Looking for a man who is kind, emotionally intelligent, enjoys an active life and still feels excited about what the next chapter might hold.
If you love the ocean, travel, meaningful conversation and living life with intention… we’ll probably get along just fine.
Bonus points if you love dogs!
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Southern Peninsula, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
49 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
166cm (5' 5.4") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Southern Peninsula (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
44 - 56 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
181cm (5' 11.3") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Finance; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing |
Valued Qualities: |
Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My swimming trunks / bikini |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Instrumental; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Crime; Mystery; Romance; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Healthy living; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Baseball; Bodyboarding; Cycling; Darts; Hiking; Rugby; Running; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Swimming; Table Tennis; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Greek; Indian; Italian; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Stressed |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
My friends are my main family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |