In Her Own Words
About Her
as ek het wat jy nie het nie
en jy het wat ek nie het nie
en jy wil hê wat ek het
en ek wil hê wat jy het
dan maak dit mos "perfect sense"
dat ons ons skapies saam
in een kraal injaag
MAAR
as ek vir jou bietjie gee van wat ek het
en ń bietjie vat van wat jy het
dan's dit mos nie nodig
dat ons skapies mekaar vrek trap
in een kraaltjie nie
EN VAN TOE AF?
Het hulle vir 'n baie lang tyd van mekaar gehou . . .
About Her Ideal Match
Well educated in Human Sciences, a bit of a deep thinker, and someone who tends to beat to the rhythm of life’s drum in her own unique way. Definitely not the run-of-the-mill kind of woman.
I’ve been accused (quite happily) of having a creative mind, being feminine, a strong woman, and occasionally showing a bit of wisdom along the way.
I’m here hoping to find “my person” — someone from my tribe to share life with. The good days, the difficult days, and yes … even the wonderfully ordinary ones.
Ideally, a perfectly imperfect soul — like me. Someone who believes that love is not about perfection, but about two imperfect people showing each other plenty of grace while building something meaningful together.
Yes, yes … we all say something like this, don’t we? Still, here we are.
So what do I value in a man?
Faith. Patience. Self-control. Kindness. Loyalty. Trust. Care. Understanding. Honesty … and just to be clear — honesty again.
And provision. Not money — relax! I’m not looking for a wallet. I value a man with a provider’s heart, someone who naturally wants to care for and protect what matters to him.
I also appreciate the luxury of equality — being on the same page in life makes building something lasting so much easier. Those little “aha” moments where two people simply understand each other are priceless.
If you’ve read this far and something resonates with you, perhaps we’re walking along the same stretch of beach.
It would be lovely to hear from you.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Hermanus, Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
66 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
173cm (5' 8.1") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Grey | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
62 - 75 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
173cm (5' 8.1") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Curly; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Intelligent; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Forgiveness; Honesty; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Movie Channels; News |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Drama; Mystery |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Hiking; Walking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |