In His Own Words
About Him
Am a mere weeks away from divorce after 22yrs of marriage. As a creature of habit, I should not even be here. But as a hopeful guy, I must dip a toe in the unfamiliar pond. However, one need only glance at my profile to see that I start off at a clear disadvantage. In my estimation and through no fault of theirs, fully 8 of 10 in my ideal dating pool will never even read this. I obviously don’t blame anyone for pining for people might not even know that I exist. We’re after all children of our lived experiences. I do not beat up on myself either, because the heart likes what the heart likes; and I’ve never been more certain of what my heart likes. So I gotta be hopeful, because if one has no hope, one begins to die. Anyway if you’re a bit gutsy, all I ask is for you to crack your door a little so I can present my manifesto. I swear I’ll not behave like a hobo, because am far from…
About His Ideal Match
Am attracted to a certain kind of woman. If you possess a listener’s patience, I occasionally do mouth off. If you’re independent, strong-willed and even a little bossy, am your mind. If you’re keen on the goings on, am a sucker for the intellectual type. If you care for others beyond your immediate family and friends, am the quintessential idealist who doesn’t believe in killing even to defend myself. If you’re any or all the above, you’re also intelligent enough to know that EVERYTHING in moderation. You might also have noticed I wrote that I don’t believe in killing—not that I’d not do it to defend my loved one(s).
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
Uganda | |
Location: |
Port Elizabeth (Sunridge Park, Gqeberha), Eastern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
181cm (5' 11.3") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Swahili | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Eastern Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
Any | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red | ||
Eye Colour: |
Black; Blue; Blue-Green; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Haven't completed high / secondary school; High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Retired; Student; Teacher / Professor; Other; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have a visual impairment; I have a chronic illness |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Shy; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Honesty; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Non-fiction |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Movie Channels; News; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Cult Classics; Documentary; Independent; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Gardening; Reading; Woodworking |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
American Football; Athletics; Badminton; Basketball; Boxing; Chess; Cricket; Cycling; Golf; Gymnastics; Ice Hockey; Ice Skating; Martial arts; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Polo; Rowing; Rugby; Running; Snooker; Soccer; Squash; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Triathlon; Volleyball; Water Polo; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Lactose-free; Other |
Pace of Life: |
Disorganised |
Time at Work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |