In His Own Words
About Him
Am recently separated after 22yrs of what I was sure was till death...Am at the tail end of the still-love-a spouse-and-also-want-out concept. I want to dip a toe into unfamiliar waters, and hope to be pleasantly surprised.
About His Ideal Match
If you’re a listener, I do mouth off a little. If you’re strong and independent, I am a sucker—but thankfully not a cuck—for the accomplished, bossy, confident and intelligent type. If you care about people and things, am a bleeding heart. And if you’re yearning and willing, well I am too.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
Uganda | |
Location: |
Port Elizabeth (Sunridge Park, Gqeberha), Eastern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
181cm (5' 11.3") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Swahili | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Eastern Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
18 - 70 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Grey; White | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Greek; Hebrew; Italian; Japanese; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Romanian; Russian; Spanish; Swedish; Turkish | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Greek; Hebrew; Italian; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Romanian; Russian; Swedish; Turkish | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Haven't completed high / secondary school; High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Retired; Student; Teacher / Professor; Other; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Outspoken; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Forgiveness; Moderation |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Non-fiction |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Movie Channels; News; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Cult Classics; Documentary; Independent; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Gardening; Meditation; Reading; Woodworking |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
American Football; Athletics; Badminton; Basketball; Boxing; Chess; Cricket; Cycling; Golf; Gymnastics; Ice Hockey; Ice Skating; Martial arts; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Polo; Rowing; Rugby; Running; Snooker; Soccer; Squash; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Triathlon; Volleyball; Water Polo; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Lactose-free; Other |
Pace of Life: |
Stressed |
Time at Work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Skinny dipping; Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Quite |