In His Own Words
About Him
Die Lewe is 'n Avontuur – Kom Gooi Anker
Oor My:
Vriende beskryf my as 'n omgee-mens wat altyd bedagsaam is, maar ook die gees van die party kan wees met 'n tasbare energie. Ek glo daaraan dat die lewe te kort is vir negatiwiteit, sarkasme of "dark humor" – ek verkies die ligte kant van die lewe, goeie maniere en mense wat met 'n positiewe gesindheid deur die wêreld stap.
Ek leef volgens die filosofie: "Ons het almal twee lewens; die tweede een begin die dag wanneer jy besef jy het eintlik net een". Daarom hou ek my uitkyk vars en my hart oop vir nuwe ervarings.
Waarvan ek hou (en nie hou nie):
Ek is 'n regte natuurkind. My ideale dag is 'n kombinasie van avontuur en rustigheid – of dit nou is om langs die strand te stap, te gaan visvang, te roei of te kamp onder die sterre. Ek hou van die fynere dinge: 'n goeie wynproe, dagreise na onbekende plekke, en musiek wat die siel raak – van hartlike Afrikaanse treffers tot die tydlose klanke van die klassieke meesters.
In die kombuis:
As ek nie buite in die natuur is nie, vind jy my in die kombuis. Kook is vir my die ultieme ontspanning en 'n passie. Ek geniet dit om rond te loop op soek na die beste bestanddele om 'n bobaas-ete voor te berei. Niks klop 'n romantiese uitstappie wat afgerond word met 'n selfgekookte maaltyd en goeie geselskap nie.
Waarna ek soek:
Ek soek 'n maat wat saam met my die pret en die stilte van die lewe kan waardeer. Iemand wat, soos ek, glo in 'n positiewe lewensuitkyk en die waarde van opregte vriendskap en romanse.
My reis as 'global citizen' het my blootgestel aan ongelooflike plekke en mense, en dit het my gevorm in die mens wat ek vandag is. Ek het geleer dat die wêreld groot is, maar dat 'n mens se eie vrede en 'n goeie konneksie met 'n maat die belangrikste bestemming is. Na alles wat ek gesien en beleef het, is ek reg om my anker te gooi en die lewe saam met die regte persoon te geniet.
About His Ideal Match
Ek soek ’n vrou wat, soos ek, jonk van gees is en die lewe met albei hande vasgryp. My ideale maat is iemand wat 'n tikkie stoutigheid in haar oë het, maar terselfdertyd 'n diep respek vir ander openbaar—negatiwiteit en om sleg te praat van mense is nie deel van ons wêreld nie. Sy moet die natuur, goeie kos en musiek net soveel soos ek waardeer.
Vir my is oop en eerlike kommunikasie die fondament van 'n werkende verhouding. Ek soek 'n konneksie wat sowel intellektueel as fisies diep loop; iemand wat sensueel en romanties is, met 'n gesonde passie vir die lewe (en mekaar). Ons tyd word gevul met die buitelug, lang stappies en die verkenning van nuwe horisonne.
Ek glo 'n verhouding floreer waar daar vrede is. Daarom soek ek iemand wat haar verlede verwerk het en emosioneel standvastig is. Negatiwiteit en onopgeloste 'issues' uit die verlede is vir my groot struikelblokke. Kom ons fokus op die 'nou', wees positief, en bou saam aan 'n toekoms wat vars en opwindend bly.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Helderberg (Gordon's Baai), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
174cm (5' 8.5") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Associates degree | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") - 180cm (5' 10.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English; Finnish; French; Italian; Dutch; Norwegian; Russian; Spanish; Swedish | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Latin; Opera; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Business; Fantasy; History; Romance; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Motoring; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Romance |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Making Music; Painting; Reading; Singing; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Athletics; Camping; Canoeing; Fishing; Hiking; Hunting; Rowing; Rugby; Running; Sailing; Surf skiing/kayaking; Swimming; Walking; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Socially |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like them Well Done ;) |
Turn-ons: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |